What turns you on, activates connection,
and keeps you interested?
Intimacy Type describes how you naturally experience attraction, connection, and excitement—and what keeps you wanting more.
It helps explain that often ambiguous factor in dating: why one person can instantly pull you in, why another slowly becomes more attractive the more you know them, and why someone who seems perfect on paper can leave you feeling absolutely nothing.
What turns you on, activates connection, and keeps you interested?
Intimacy Type describes how you naturally experience attraction, connection, and excitement—and what keeps you wanting more.
It helps explain that often ambiguous factor in dating: why one person can instantly pull you in, why another slowly becomes more attractive the more you know them, and why someone who seems perfect on paper can leave you feeling absolutely nothing.
What makes someone feel like your type?
We tend to call that feeling chemistry.
But chemistry doesn’t tell us why we feel it.
Intimacy Type identifies the pathways that activate connection for you and helps you understand what activates connection for someone else.
Why does one conversation make you want to know everything about someone?
Why does feeling emotionally understood suddenly make someone more attractive?
Why does sharing an experience create a closeness that wasn’t there before?
Why can someone’s presence alone pull you toward them?
Why can meeting someone whose values and direction align with yours make you think, “I want to know this person”?
Connection is activated through curiosity, ideas, discovery, meaningful conversation, and mental stimulation.
Connection is activated through emotional openness, empathy, vulnerability, understanding, and feeling deeply seen.
Connection is activated through presence, proximity, touch, physical energy, and embodied closeness.
Connection is activated through novelty, exploration, shared experiences, movement, fun, and discovering something together.
Connection is activated through intention, shared values, meaning, direction, and a sense of building or moving toward something that matters.
Your pattern.
Your pathways
Your connection,
The Personal Connection Map reveals what naturally activates connection in you and how your five pathways work together as you move toward intimacy.
